1. Before You Watch
- Who usually pays on a first date in your culture?
- Should the person who earns more automatically pay more?
- Is a 50/50 split fair when one partner earns much less?
- Can accepting financial support reduce a person’s independence?
- Which matters most: equality, generosity or independence?
2. Key Vocabulary
3. Vocabulary Challenge
4. First Viewing — The Big Picture
The Evolution of the Bill · 3:29
Watch once without stopping. Choose the best summary.
5. Second Viewing — Reconstruct the Argument
- What traditional financial arrangement is presented?
- Which social or economic changes made that arrangement less automatic?
- Which different systems for paying are shown?
- Why can equal cash payments create an unequal burden?
- What appears more important than following one universal rule?
6. Equality, Equity or Fairness?
7. Disagree Politely
Blunt: “That’s ridiculous. Men should pay.”
Diplomatic: “I understand the traditional argument; however, I’m not convinced it should apply in every situation.”
Rewrite these statements so they sound more diplomatic:
- Splitting everything equally is obviously unfair.
- Your idea would never work.
- If you earn more, you have to pay more.
Useful language: I see your point; however… · Would that still apply if…? · It depends largely on… · What if we were to…?
8. The Fair-Split Challenge
Maya and Dan
Maya earns £4,000 net per month; Dan earns £2,000. Shared costs are £1,800. Dan is repaying a student loan.
Leila and Tom
They earn almost the same. Leila does most childcare and unpaid household work; Tom works longer paid hours.
Sofía and Marcus
Marcus wants to pay for every date. Sofía appreciates it but worries about dependence and decision-making power.
Choose and defend a system
Sole provider, 50/50, proportional contribution, shared pool—or another arrangement?
9. Discussion — Think Deeper
- Can a generous financial gesture create an unspoken obligation?
- Should unpaid domestic labour affect how cash expenses are divided?
- Can a traditional arrangement be fair if both partners freely choose it?
- Should couples aim for equal contribution, equal sacrifice or equal remaining income?
- When does financial support become financial control?
- Should the higher earner always contribute more?
10. C1 Speaking Challenge
“In a heterosexual relationship, the man should normally pay more.”
Speak for two minutes. State your position, give an example, address an opposing argument and reach a clear conclusion.
Useful C1 language: As a general principle… · That may be fair in some cases, but… · That assumption overlooks… · On balance…
11. Writing Challenge
B2
Write 180-220 words: “Splitting every bill equally is not always fair.” Do you agree?
C1
Write 250-300 words proposing principles that couples can use to divide financial responsibilities fairly.
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