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A2–B1 English · Conversation unit 1

Interactive English Lesson: Family

Talk about the people closest to you — who they are, what they're like and how you get on. Learn 23 key words and phrasal verbs, check your answers instantly, solve a family crossword and practise speaking with timers, question generators and games.

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Part 1 · Vocabulary

People and relationships

Say each word, guess the meaning, then tap the card to check. Try to make your own example before you flip.

Key vocabulary

Ten phrasal verbs for talking about family

Pronunciation: cousin /ˈkʌzən/ — short ‘u’, like mother · nephew /ˈnef.juː/, niece /niːs/ · daughter /ˈdɔːtə/ — silent gh. ¡Ojo! False friend: parents = only your mother and father. For parientes, say relatives.

Collocations: a close family · a distant relative · a family gathering · a family resemblance · to start a family · to run in the family (“Musical talent runs in the family.”)

Quick practice — complete the sentences

Type a word or phrasal verb from this page. Use the correct form.

  1. Everyone says my sister our mother — same eyes, same laugh.
  2. I don't have any brothers or sisters. I'm an .
  3. My parents both worked, so my grandmother me .
  4. He with his cousin last year and they still don't speak.
Part 2 · Vocabulary

What are they like?

To talk about your family properly, you need to describe personality and appearance. “What's she like?” asks about personality — “What does she look like?” asks about appearance.

Positive or “watch out — less positive”?

Decide for each adjective. The meaning appears when you choose.

cheerful
moody
generous
mean
hard-working
lazy
sociable / outgoing
bossy
reliable
stubborn
caring
grumpy
laid-back
big-headed
talkative / chatty
shy / reserved
¡Ojo! False friends: sensible = sensato (practical, with common sense), while sensitive = sensible (feels emotions deeply). “My father is very sensible with money, but quite sensitive about his cooking!”

Talking about appearance

  • Age: in her (early / mid / late) twenties · middle-aged · elderly
  • Build: slim · well-built · tall · short
  • Hair: curly / straight / wavy · going grey · bald · she has shoulder-length dark hair
  • Other: he has a beard · she wears glasses

Natural structures for describing people

  • She's the kind of person who never forgets a birthday.
  • He can be a bit stubborn sometimes, but he means well. (softer than “he is stubborn”)
  • She's quite shy at first, but once you know her, she's really chatty.
  • He's got a great sense of humour — he makes everyone laugh.
  • She hardly ever loses her temper, even when my brother gets on her nerves.

Upgrade your English

At A2, everyone says nice and good. Rewrite each sentence with stronger vocabulary from this page — then read both versions aloud and hear the difference.

  1. My aunt is nice. → My aunt is really — she'd do anything for you.
  2. My brother is not very nice in the mornings. → My brother is quite in the mornings.
  3. My grandfather is a good person to talk to. → My grandfather is — he loves a long chat.
  4. My cousin is a bit bad with money. → My cousin is a bit with money.
Speak · pairs · 5 min

Guess who

Think of someone in your family. Describe them in three sentences — personality, appearance and one habit — without saying who they are. Your partner guesses the relationship: “Is it your grandfather?” Then swap. Play three rounds, using different vocabulary each time.

Part 3 · Vocabulary practice

Word workout

Work alone first, then compare with a partner. Explain any differences — in English, of course!

Exercise 1 — Odd one out

Choose the word that doesn't belong. Then say why.

Exercise 2 — Match the halves

Choose the correct ending for each sentence.

  1. Musical talent runs
  2. I really look up
  3. My little brother gets
  4. The twins really take
  5. After the argument, it took them a year to make
  6. One day I'd like to settle

Exercise 3 — Opposites

Write the opposite of each word.

Exercise 4 — Complete the story

Fill each gap with one phrasal verb from Part 1 in the correct form.

I (1) in a small flat with my mum, who (2) me on her own. Money was short, but my grandparents helped to (3) me while she worked. I've always (4) my mum — she never complains. Last year she finally decided to (5) with her sister after ten years of silence; they'd (6) over something so small that neither of them could remember what it was!

Exercise 5 — Correct the typical mistakes

Each sentence has a very common Spanish-speaker error. Choose the correct version.

✗ My brother has twenty-five years old.

✗ I have a very good relation with my parents.

✗ We are five in my family.

✗ My sister is more old than me.

Speak · make it personal

Exercise 6 — Make it personal

Complete these sentences so they are true for you, then read them to your partner. Your partner asks one follow-up question about each.

  • The person I most look up to in my family is …
  • People say I take after …
  • The most easy-going person in our household is …
  • Something that runs in my family is …
  • A member of my family who can be a bit stubborn is …
Part 4 · Read the clue. Find the word.

Family vocabulary crossword

How to play & keyboard controls

Choose an Across or Down clue, or tap a white square, and type one letter per square. Tap a crossing square again to change direction. Letters move you forward; Backspace deletes; arrow keys move through the grid. Enter or Space switches direction at a crossing. Use the direction buttons on a touch screen.

Check Answers marks filled squares with ✓ (correct) or × (try again). Reveal Letter helps with the selected square; revealed squares have a gold dot. Clear / Reset starts again. On a small screen, swipe inside the grid to see more squares.

Score: 0 / 16 words correct0 letters revealed

Choose a clue to begin.

✓ Correct   × Try again   ● Revealed letter

Across

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Part 5 · Speaking questions

Forty questions about family

Work with a partner or in small groups. Don't just answer — explain, give examples and ask follow-up questions. Aim to speak for at least a minute per question in the later sections.

Press Random question to start.

1:00
Warm-up — getting started Questions 1–10
  1. How many people are there in your immediate family?
  2. Who are you closest to in your family, and why?
  3. Who do you take after — your mother's side or your father's?
  4. What does a typical Sunday look like in your family?
  5. Who is the funniest person in your family? Give an example.
  6. Do you come from a big extended family or a small one?
  7. Who did you spend most time with when you were growing up?
  8. What is one thing your family always does together?
  9. Who in your family is most similar to you in personality?
  10. What do you usually do at family gatherings?
Going deeper — opinions and comparisons Questions 11–25
  1. Is it better to grow up with siblings or as an only child? Why?
  2. How is your generation different from your parents' generation?
  3. Who was stricter when you were a child — your mother or your father?
  4. What makes a family close-knit, in your opinion?
  5. How important is it to live near your family?
  6. Spanish families often eat together every day. Is this changing? Is that a problem?
  7. At what age should young people move out of the family home?
  8. Should grandparents help look after their grandchildren, or is that the parents' job?
  9. What's more important in a parent: being strict or being easy-going?
  10. How do families in Spain compare with families in Britain or the US?
  11. Is working in a family business a good idea? What are the risks?
  12. How has technology changed family life — for better or worse?
  13. Who should do the housework in a modern family?
  14. Which family traditions do you hope will never disappear?
  15. Is it ever acceptable to fall out with a relative permanently?
Big questions — hypotheticals and debate Questions 26–40
  1. If you could invite any relative from history to dinner, who would it be?
  2. If you had grown up in a different country, how would you be different?
  3. If you could add one new tradition to your family, what would it be?
  4. If your best friend fell out with their parents, what advice would you give?
  5. Would you rather live with your extended family or far from everyone?
  6. If you have children one day, what will you do differently from your parents?
  7. What would you do if a relative asked to borrow a lot of money?
  8. If your parents chose your career, would you accept their choice?
  9. Imagine your family won the lottery. What would change — and what wouldn't?
  10. Should parents check their teenagers' phones? Where is the line?
  11. If you could learn one secret from your family's history, would you want to?
  12. Is the traditional family disappearing, or just changing?
  13. What will family life look like in fifty years' time?
  14. Who in your family deserves more recognition than they get?
  15. What is the most important lesson your family has taught you?
Keep it going: when your partner finishes, always ask one follow-up question before moving on: “Why is that?” · “Really? Tell me more.” · “What about you?”
Part 6 · Pair work

Speaking activities

Whole class · 10 min

Activity 1 — Find someone who…

Talk to your classmates. Find a different person for each line. Rule: ask a full question (“Do you take after your mother?”) and, when someone says yes, ask one follow-up question and note the detail.

…is an only child…takes after their father…has more than ten cousins…was brought up partly by their grandparents…has relatives living in another country…has fallen out (and made up!) with a sibling…comes from a household of five or more people…looks after a younger family member
Groups of 3 · 10–15 min

Activity 2 — Role play: the family meeting

Your family must decide together, but everyone wants something different. Prepare for two minutes, then hold the meeting. You must reach an agreement — nobody can simply say no.

A — The summer holiday

Parent: you want a quiet beach week. Teenager: you want a city trip with theme parks. Grandparent: you want everyone to visit the village where you grew up.

B — Phones at dinner

Parent: you want a total phone ban at the table. Teenager: you need your phone for messages. Older sibling: you propose a compromise — but it must be realistic.

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Pairs · 10 min

Activity 3 — Ranking: what makes a good parent?

Put these qualities in order from 1 (most important) to 8 (least important). Use the arrows. You must agree with your partner on the final order — defend your choices, then compare with another pair.

  1. being patient
  2. being strict about rules
  3. listening without judging
  4. being generous with money
  5. spending lots of time together
  6. trusting their children
  7. being a good example
  8. supporting their children's dreams
Pairs · 5–10 min

Activity 4 — Would you rather…?

Choose one option, explain why, and ask your partner one follow-up question.

Press the button for a question.

Pairs · 5–10 min

Activity 5 — One-minute mini-debates

Student A defends the statement; Student B argues against it — one minute each, then thirty seconds each to respond. Swap roles for the next statement. It doesn't matter what you really think!

  • “Families should eat dinner together every day, with no exceptions.”
  • “Teenagers should start paying rent at home as soon as they have a job.”
  • “It's better to live in the same city as your parents all your life.”
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Part 7 · Useful English

Sounding natural in conversation

Good speakers don't just answer questions — they react, ask back, and keep the conversation alive. Learn these phrases now: you will use them in every unit.

When you want to…Say…
show interestOh really? · No way! · That's so interesting. · You're joking!
ask a follow-up questionHow come? · What was that like? · And then what happened?
pass the conversation backWhat about you? · How about your family? · Is it the same for you?
buy time to thinkThat's a good question… · Let me think… · I've never thought about that.
give an exampleFor example, … · For instance, … · Like when my brother…
clarify what you saidWhat I mean is… · In other words… · Sorry, let me explain that better.
check you understoodDo you mean…? · So you're saying…? · What do you mean by…?
agreeExactly! · That's so true. · I know what you mean. · Same here.
disagree politelyI see your point, but… · I'm not so sure. · Maybe, but don't you think…?
return after an interruptionAnyway, as I was saying… · Where was I? Oh yes…

What is the speaker doing?

Choose the function of each phrase.

“Hmm, that's a good question…”

“Is it the same for you?”

“I see your point, but…”

“So you're saying…?”

“How come?”

“Anyway, as I was saying…”

See it in action

Ana: My cousin is getting married in Ireland next spring.

Leo: No way! Congratulations! What was that like when you found out?

Ana: Hmm, that's a good question… honestly, we were all surprised. They've only been together a year.

Leo: I know what you mean. My sister got engaged really quickly too. Is it the same for you — will the whole family travel?

Ana: For example, my grandparents want to go, but the flights… What I mean is, it's going to be complicated!

Spanish speaker tip: in English, silence sounds strange in conversation. While your partner speaks, react with small sounds and phrases: “Mm-hmm… Right… Really? … Wow.” This is active listening — it shows interest and gives your partner confidence.
Pairs · 5 min

Practice 1 — React and return

Student A reads a sentence. Student B must (1) react, (2) ask a follow-up question and (3) pass the conversation back. Then swap.

Press the button for a sentence.

Pairs · 10 min

Practice 2 — The one-minute rule

Choose any question from Part 5. Your partner must speak for one full minute without stopping. If they pause too long, they must use a buying-time phrase (“Let me think…”) instead of going silent. Count how many phrases from this page your partner uses — the winner is the person who uses the most, naturally.

1:00
Part 8 · Read, compare, discuss

Four families

Read about these four families. Notice the vocabulary from Parts 1–2, then answer the questions and do the speaking tasks with a partner.

The Romeros Seville

Three generations under one roof: grandparents, parents and three teenagers. Everyone helps in the family bakery, even at weekends. Sunday lunch lasts three hours, there are always extra chairs for cousins, and it is never, ever quiet. Abuela Carmen is strict about one thing only: no phones at the table.

The Yangs London

Both parents work long hours in the city; their son Daniel, fifteen, is an only child. The flat is quiet, dinner is often a takeaway, and most family conversation happens in their group chat — including jokes, homework reminders and the occasional telling-off. Once a year they take one big unforgettable holiday together.

The Kowalskis Manchester

Marta is a single parent bringing up twins, Ola and Filip, far from her relatives in Poland. Money is tight and Marta is strict about homework, but the three of them are extremely close-knit. Birthdays are enormous: Polish traditions, video calls with twenty relatives, and a cake that takes two days to make.

The Silvas Lisbon

The parents are divorced but still friendly. Nine-year-old Beatriz and her teenage brother Tiago spend one week with Mum, one week with Dad — two homes, two bedrooms, and slightly different rules in each, which Tiago says he uses to his advantage. Dad's weeks usually involve football; Mum's involve the beach.

Which family…?

…has three generations living in the same home?

…has an only child?

…has a single parent bringing up twins?

…has children who live in two different homes?

…talks most in a group chat?

…lives far from their extended family?

Language for comparing: Both the Romeros and the Kowalskis… · Neither family… · The Yangs are far more independent than… · The Silvas seem relaxed, whereas / while the Kowalskis… · The Romeros are not nearly as quiet as… Use at least four of these in the tasks below.
Pairs · 5 min

Task 1 — Compare

Which family is most like yours, and which is least like yours? Explain with examples: “We're a bit like the Romeros because…, but nothing like the Yangs because…”

Pairs · 10 min

Task 2 — Decide together

Agree on an answer to each question. You must give reasons.

  • Which family seems the most close-knit? And the most relaxed?
  • You're going on a one-month exchange. Which family do you choose to stay with, and why?
  • Which teenager — the Romero kids, Daniel, the twins or Tiago — has the best deal? Who has the hardest?
  • Each family has one possible problem in its future. What might it be, and what's your advice?
Groups of 3–4 · 10 min

Task 3 — Hot seat

One student becomes a member of one of these families. The others are journalists and interview them for two minutes: daily routine, relationships, what they'd change. The family member must invent believable details that aren't in the text. Then choose a new family member and swap.

2:00
Part 9 · Fluency games

Games corner

Games to recycle this unit's language. The point isn't winning — it's speaking.

Pairs or teams · 10 min

Game 1 — Family Taboo

Describe the word in capitals to your partner without saying the forbidden words. How many can your team guess in three minutes? Round 2: only three words per card. Round 3: mime only!

Ready?Press Start to begin a 3-minute round.
3:00 · Score 0
Groups of 3–4 · 10 min

Game 2 — Just a minute

Speak for sixty seconds on a topic — no long pauses, no repetition, no Spanish! The others listen and may challenge. Harder: the group chooses your topic only ten seconds before you start.

Press the button for a topic.

1:00
Whole class · 10 min

Game 3 — Two truths and a lie

Write three sentences about your family — two true, one false: “My uncle has met the King.” · “I have relatives on three continents.” · “My grandmother rides a motorbike.” Read them aloud; the class asks questions for one minute, then votes on the lie. One point for every person you fool!

Groups of 4–5 · 10 min

Game 4 — The chain story

Build a story one sentence each, starting with: “It was my grandmother's eightieth birthday when, suddenly, the doorbell rang…” Every sentence must include a word or phrasal verb from Part 1 or 2. Can't think of one in ten seconds? You're out — the last storyteller standing wins.

Whole class · 10 min

Game 5 — Who am I?

Get a secret role (show it to everyone except the player!). Walk around asking only yes/no questions — “Do people look up to me?” · “Am I easy-going?” — until you guess who you are. Everyone must answer in character.

Press the button for a secret role.

Speaking challenge · 20 min

The family interview

You are a journalist writing a magazine feature called “Modern Families”. Interview your partner in depth about their family — then introduce them to another pair, as if presenting them on a podcast.

  1. Prepare (5 min). Write six questions: at least two hypothetical questions and two with phrasal verbs from Part 1. Useful starts: “Tell me about a time when your family…” · “What's the story behind…?” · “Who would you say is the most… and why?” · “If your family could…, what would…?” · “How has your family changed since…?”
  2. Interview (10 min). Take short notes and use follow-up questions from Part 7 — a good journalist never accepts a one-sentence answer. Then swap roles.
  3. Present (2 min each). Join another pair and present the three most interesting things you learned: “Let me introduce Marta. She comes from a close-knit family of six, and the person she most looks up to is…” Each listener asks one question at the end.

Presenter's toolkit: “Let me introduce…” · “What surprised me most was…” · “One thing we have in common is…” · “Interestingly, she told me that…” · “To sum up, the word that best describes his family is…”

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Part 10 · Review & progress

What have you learned?

Quick quiz — no looking back!

  1. What do you call your brother's daughter?
  2. “What's she like?” asks about…
  3. Which phrasal verb means to admire and respect someone?
  4. Your parents and siblings are your family; cousins and uncles are your family.
  5. The opposite of strict: And of mean with money:
  6. In English, what should you say instead of parientes?
  7. Complete: “He can be bit stubborn , but he means well.”
  8. Which phrase helps you buy time to think?
  9. Which adjective describes a family with very strong relationships?
  10. Which one means sensato?

Self-assessment — can you do these things now?

0 / 6 — keep going!

Homework speaking task: record a voice note (60–90 seconds) describing one member of your family: who they are, what they're like, who they take after, and why you look up to them (or don't!). Use at least six expressions from this unit. Send it to your teacher or bring it to the next class.
For teachers — suggested route through the unit
Lesson90-minute plan60-minute plan
Lesson 1Parts 1–2 vocabulary + Part 3 workoutParts 1 + 3 (set Part 2 as pre-work)
Lesson 2Part 5 questions + Part 6 pair workPart 5 + two Part 6 activities
Lesson 3Part 7 useful English + Part 8 Four familiesPart 7 + remaining Part 6 activities
Lesson 4Part 9 games & interview + Part 10 reviewPart 8, then interview and review (games as reward time)
  • Drill the false friends early — parents/relatives and sensible/sensitive — and elicit both again at the end of each lesson.
  • Don't work through all 40 questions. Assign different bands to different pairs, then regroup so students report their partner's answers — this forces third-person practice (he takes after, she gets on with).
  • Model the one-minute rule yourself first, deliberately using buying-time phrases, and have students count them.
  • During pair work, note errors silently and run a two-minute delayed correction slot at the end.
  • Support (low A2): allow written notes for the interview; reduce Just a minute to thirty seconds. Challenge (strong B1): ban notes in the presentation and require two hypothetical questions.
Who is this lesson for?

A2–B1 learners and their teachers

This unit is designed for A2–B1 (pre-intermediate to intermediate) learners who want to talk about family with more confidence. It works for self-study — every exercise checks itself — and in class, with timers, question generators and games ready to project.

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